Christmas Shopping: the dos, don'ts and I'M BEGGING YOU NOT TOs

Halloween is done and over, it's freaking chilly outside and I've already picked out our tree. In my eyes it's officially Christmas and I don't care what people say. So Merry Christmas and let's get this festive shit show on the road. 

As a very extra Christmas fanatic I tend to get Christmas shopping done early. With good reason, a student budget and more wonderful people to shop for every year, I know how painful running out of money becomes. I spread my Christmas shopping out usually between three paydays, leaving money for actually existing as well as making sure I give myself time to think about what to buy for certain people. Here's a list of my super easy, but ridiculously organised Christmas plans:

DO's:

• SECRET SANTA: Every year my pals from home and I do this now, it just makes sense! It's a fun and cheap way to make sure everyone gets something worthwhile whilst everyone is a little tight on money. If you're at university, flat secret santa can be a great way of getting to know people better and makes for so much fun guessing who bought what. I usually tend to get it sorted who's got who in SEPTEMBER, just so we can all be planned well in advance. 

• DO THE SILLY FAMILY TRADITIONS: don't be that person, you don't have to cool around the people that literally wiped your butt for years. Put on the ugly slippers and have fun!

• CHRISTMAS WITH PALS: If you do have secret santa, plan a day together to give each other presents. All cram into someones bedroom or living room, stick on a festive album or film and just have a cute little day with some of your favourite people. Trust me it's the best! I've done it every year since high school, and even with my uni pals last year, which led to one of my favourite memories from my time at Sheffield.

• DECORATE WITH RECKLESS ABANDON: when I decorate for Christmas, it looks like a 10 year old has been let loose in a craft shop (see pictures for proof). It's go hard or go home, there is no "pretty" in how I decorate. Have FUN, it's Christmas.
• CHRISTMAS LIGHTS/MARKETS: yes they are crowded and overpriced but you can't put a price on the giggles and memories you make at times like this, it's fun and who doesn't love getting wrapped up warm, cuddling people they love in festive spirit?
  
• COMMUNICATE WITH PEOPLE: Not sure if you need to buy for someone, ask? Especially if you're strapped for cash as a student or as a parent, the likelihood is, so are they! It can be awkward to send that first message but you can save yourself a lot of stress for the sake of one or two "hey are we doing Christmas gifts this year?" messages.
  
• START EARLY: Like I said earlier, start shopping earlier rather than later. As a retail worker who has seen a few Christmas rushes, I know that panicked last minute shopper and there is nothing worse than that "out of stock" disappointment, not to mention the sky rocketing prices of things and the horrible busy, cranky atmosphere. Doing your shopping this way makes sure you can enjoy the Christmas spirit and not feel so poor in the lead up. 
• BUDGET: Once you've sorted who you're buying for, make a list and think about what you have to spend. Dedicate a rough amount to each person and keep that in mind when shopping. Shop around, you live in the age of the internet! Find the best price, ain't no shame in a bargain if it makes for the right gift.  
• LET YOUR LOVED ONES KNOW THEY'RE LOVED: Heck give everyone who needs and deserves it some love, Christmas isn't all about presents and food. It's a gorgeous time of year where you finally get to spend a tiny bit of quality time with people, away from their busy schedules. Appreciate it and use it wisely!
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DON'T:

• BUY MORE THAN YOU NEED: most Christmas shoppers have been prone to the Debenhams or Boots "just in case" gift box. WHY DO WE DO IT? It's a waste of money and if you're well organised and sensible about who you need to buy for it's just not necessary. You'll end up with a £15 Soap and Glory gift set that sits unopened in your room until near the next Christmas when you run out of shower gel and end up hoarding foot cream or body lotion from the phantom gifts of years gone by, like you're ever gonna use it.
• LEAVE IT TO THE LAST MINUTE: if you shop on Christmas eve, you make me nervous. I just don't get it! Stock has gone and people are MISERABLE. I've seen people sliding under closing shutters, begging for something that the shop hasn't seen in days because they've all been snatched up. Don't do this to yourself.
• LEAVE YOURSELF SHORT: I know a lot is expected of you to give good gifts at Christmas, but don't suffer because of it. Everyone's pockets feel that bit emptier but talk to family and friends and just be sensible about your spending, people get that you won't always have all the money in the world. Gifts can be cheap and beautiful, it really can be about the thought that's gone into it above all else.
• BE LAZY: on the issue of thought, if you're gonna do Christmas presents, don't be a cop out. If you're stuck, don't be afraid to ask them if there is something they want/need (or ask people around them if they're your SS). Don't just give up and get gift cards or 'smelly' bits, especially not for secret santa, there is nothing more exciting than knowing a gift has been pick FOR you. 
• LET SHOPPING RUIN THE SPIRIT: shopping sucks, if you're not good at it, stick to online. In this day and age you can do all of your shopping without getting out of bed if you really want to, and then just go out and enjoy Christmas spirit through the lights and markets. 

I'M BEGGING YOU NOT TO:

• BE RUDE TO RETAIL STAFF: I cannot express this enough. No matter how stressed you get, how many things have gone wrong in your day, no matter what happens. DO NOT BE RUDE TO STAFF, 9/10 they have not done anything wrong and almost everything that has happened that hasn't gone your way is out of their hands. They are probably on minimum wage, possibly even temps who thanks to company policy can do nothing else to help you. They are tired and stressed and want to go home and be with their family too. Just don't be a dick, please. 
• DAMPEN PEOPLE'S CHRISTMAS SPIRIT: if people want to get all Frosty the Snowman and enjoy Christmas, throwing their decorations up and have them so extra that you can see them from space, let them. It really doesn't affect you, they're having fun.
• BE RUDE ABOUT A GIFT: If someone has bought you something, they have spent their hard earned money on you in a time where they've got A LOT to do, they are very poor and probably sacrificed a lot to do so. Don't get all "but it's not a ____" or "this person got ____". Presents are not a relative issue, you should be incredibly grateful for anything at all, seem it! 

Well that's it! I hope your Christmas period is well underway and I hope that you're as excited as I am. I wish you the best of luck in you're shopping adventures and hope that you have a incredible Christmas. 

Much love,

- Chloe x

Get Organised!

I've recently followed some amazing blogs that have inspired  me a lot and I've decided that it's about time I started one myself.

Since leaving education I've felt a little all over the place and have struggled to feel organised and prepared. Last week, I noticed a video on Facebook talking about a 'bullet journal' and I fell in love. I've wasted so much money on planners and journals over the past few years that I never use because they've not got sections that I need or have lots of pointless ideas in them that deter me from keeping up with it. A bullet journal is made by you, for you, it doesn't have to be expensive and it can suit you exactly. 

Literally the day after I saw this video, I got dressed and went into my town centre and ended up getting a little bit stationary mad.

I bought everything from Ryman's because I was lucky to catch the 'Back to School' clearance, but i'm sure you can pick everything up online pretty cheap.

I walked in and straight away spotted the highlighters (every stationary nerd's biggest weakness) for just £3.99, I couldn't resist the pastel set and Stabilo ones last ages so I was happy handing over my bank card for this one. The fine liner and fibre tip pens (also Stabilo) were a bargain for £9.99, they are all I use to write in the journal so very much worth the price. 

If you're anything like me, you will have regularly given up on similar projects because, like any human, you made small  mistakes and decided it didn't look as 'pretty' as you wanted. Well, ladies and gentlemen and everyone in between, the motherland, Japan has yet again come up with a solution in the art of 'Washi tape'. Literally any mark you make that you don't like can be covered with this tape and you feel like it's still cute enough to fit in with your beautiful little book. You can get washi tape in thousands of designs and colours, I chose a baby pink roll for 59p in the sale and it's been a god send. 

Finally, the journal itself was more difficult, I wanted a unruled journal that was completely plain but still had a nice colour cover.  This journal is a Teal Leuchtturm unruled A5 250 page journal and cost £14.99. Some people prefer a dotted or squared journal but plain was nice and easy and this journal comes with a stencil under sheet if you're bothered about straight lines for writing. 

That's it! You're ready to start your journal. 

The design and contents is completely up to you, be bold and make sure you include everything you think will help you in day to day life.

My personal planner works mainly on a monthly basis and has lots of useful pages such as budget planning and habit trackers. Something I would suggest using in the journal would be an index as well as a key, this will aid you not only designing the pages but also in the future to make sense of your little scribbles whilst on the go.

Be creative, don't be afraid to use fancy headers and doodles. Fill pages that don't have much on with inspirational quotes or with your favourite little drawings. Have fun with it, it'll only make you want to keep up with it because of all your hard work.

side note: told you I used a lot of washi tape😅

I'm going to talk you through the rest of my journal, feel free to take ideas, adapt them to your life or completely reinvent them! Remember: this is YOUR journal.

Following the index and key, I have what I like to call my 'Future Log' which is basically a calendar with room for expansion and notes. Just split up the pages evenly, I did 3 columns per page, and then leave room below for anything you need to expand on. Don't worry about putting every little event or task you have here, that comes later.

The best thing I have found here is that I can work from the month I have decided to start the journal rather than making all my organisation plans in January or wasting a bunch of months/space in a normal planner. 

Next is my monthly planner, an easier view of what's to come this month. Perfect place to highlight birthdays, anniversaries, holidays and other big events as well as boring stuff like appointments and those dreaded deadlines. Again, make it look the way you want, I plan to change this page every month, especially at times like Halloween and Christmas when I can theme it. Why not?

Particularly important date? Highlight it or write it on top of some washi tape! 

Even more detail comes in the weekly logs, draw up enough of these for every week of the month (remember some months run across 5 weeks, don't get caught out). Here is where you can put your daily tasks, remind yourself to book appointments, visit family members, call your friend or pay rent. It's nice to have literally everything laid out in front of you, from pay day to 'look into Spotify premium', because at once glance you can't forget anything. You can also go into plenty of detail here, you can put the full address of a flat you're going to view, or remind yourself of when your next job interview will be and what they need you to take. Everything is there for you to follow.

After this, you can get creative! I have decided to opt for a 'brain dump' page each month for anything that won't make sense elsewhere. I usually use this page to scribble passwords or important contact details. But sometimes it's just fun to doodle and write how I feel here, especially on a long train journey or if I'm up late at night, it's rather therapeutic. 

Tracking my habits is something I do to follow up on my behaviours and at the end of each month I reflect on this and try to adapt my lifestyle to improve the 'results'. I have found it INCREDIBLY helpful in aiding my mental state and eliminating self destructive behaviour. I document every single day: my mood; my exercise; if I have taken time to draw/read and other things such as cleaning and if I have drank alcohol. If you're a worrier or just someone who needs a little more self love, this page isn't much effort and has immensely noticeable results.

Following that, expenses. Yes, budgeting is never fun, but it is often essential. This is a super basic tracker of outgoings each month (including spontaneous spends). This helps me notice where all the money I think I have saved each month has disappeared to and makes me tighten my purse strings a little when needed. Separately to this I have a much more elaborate finance planner, which I might post at a later date, but this is enough to work through each month as long as you're honest with the table. 

Finally, make sure you remember each month fondly. Fill a page or two with the fun stuff you've done. Print mini pictures or save travel tickets. Stick them in with the washi tape (another of it's many uses), it's a great way to never forget the good days and keep your souvenirs safe.

Overall, setting up a months worth of these pages, making them ready to use, took me around an hour. I can't express how much even this is enjoyable, it usually gets me feeling really inspired and motivated to get my life on track. Get creative, have fun with it! Make space to write poems, draw your feelings or even just to scribble if you feel like it. Make it your own and you will go so far with it. 

Well, that's all from me. The rest is up to you.

~ Chloe x